As my heart became a loom
When creating this tapestry
I had stitched threads of you
As I wove them around me
With loving textures blending
As I connected each thread
Here among my heartstrings
Its woven in passionate red
Love woven strand by strand
With a heart devoted to you
For inspiration you gave me
Enhanced the colourful hue
While weaving togetherness
Love created a work of art
Attached with forever bonds
In the treasures of the heart
I LOVE YOU HONEY!
Wednesday, August 27, 2008
Tuesday, August 12, 2008
Maturity in Love
For a love relationship to mature, both partners must experience a deep feeling, a tacit belief, that there is something quite special about them which would never have happened had each not contributed to its creation.
Mature love partners have learned not to expect perfection in each other. They know that acceptance has its own reward.Each lover's differences test the other's capacity for acceptance, forgiveness and understanding.
They never dance around issues. When necessary, they discuss their imperfections, lovingly, with care not to pass judgment with harmful words. Acceptance and tolerance hold hands in the presence of unconditional love.
Mature lovers -- lovers who love unconditionally -- develop a knack for side-stepping resentment and focusing on the good they see in one another.They have evolved to a higher level of understanding, one that transcends taking notice of the imperfections of the other.
Maturity is the capacity to face unpleasantness, frustration, discomfort and defeat without complaint or collapse.
Mature love partners know they can't have everything their own way. They are able to defer to circumstances, to other people - and to time, when necessary.
Mature love partners permit each other the freedom to pursue their individual interests and friends without restriction. This is when trust presents itself.
Mature love allows this level of separateness to bring lovers closer together. In this scenario separateness is perceived as a bond, not a wedge. It encourages love partners to celebrate their own uniqueness.
To be capable of real love means becoming mature, with realistic expectations of the other person. It means accepting responsibility for our own happiness or unhappiness, and neither expecting the other person to make us happy nor blaming that person for our bad moods and frustrations.
Maturity, in general, is many things. Maturity in a love relationship is everything! First it is the ability to base a decision about a love relationship on the big picture - the long haul. In general, it means being able to pass up the fun for the moment and select the course of action which will pay off later.
In a love relationship, it means being able to enjoy the instant gratification that comes with the romance of the moment while knowing the best is yet to be and being patient while you watch your love grow.
It is knowing that by working together, the state of unconditional love will presence itself in the relationship and will mature with time. It is knowing that you grow into a love relationship. It doesn't happen all at once. Mature love partners seek new ways to help each other grow.
One of the characteristics of infancy is the "I want it now" approach. Grown-up people can wait. And often they don't. Often they allow themselves to slip back into infancy so they can justify rushing into things.
Maturity is the ability to stick with a project or a situation until it is finished. It means doing whatever it takes to make the relationship be one you are proud to be in.
The adult who is constantly changing jobs, relationships, and friends, is in a word. . . immature. They cannot stick it out because they have not grown up. Everything seems to turn sour after a while.
Mature love partners have learned not to expect perfection in each other. They know that acceptance has its own reward.Each lover's differences test the other's capacity for acceptance, forgiveness and understanding.
They never dance around issues. When necessary, they discuss their imperfections, lovingly, with care not to pass judgment with harmful words. Acceptance and tolerance hold hands in the presence of unconditional love.
Mature lovers -- lovers who love unconditionally -- develop a knack for side-stepping resentment and focusing on the good they see in one another.They have evolved to a higher level of understanding, one that transcends taking notice of the imperfections of the other.
Maturity is the capacity to face unpleasantness, frustration, discomfort and defeat without complaint or collapse.
Mature love partners know they can't have everything their own way. They are able to defer to circumstances, to other people - and to time, when necessary.
Mature love partners permit each other the freedom to pursue their individual interests and friends without restriction. This is when trust presents itself.
Mature love allows this level of separateness to bring lovers closer together. In this scenario separateness is perceived as a bond, not a wedge. It encourages love partners to celebrate their own uniqueness.
To be capable of real love means becoming mature, with realistic expectations of the other person. It means accepting responsibility for our own happiness or unhappiness, and neither expecting the other person to make us happy nor blaming that person for our bad moods and frustrations.
Maturity, in general, is many things. Maturity in a love relationship is everything! First it is the ability to base a decision about a love relationship on the big picture - the long haul. In general, it means being able to pass up the fun for the moment and select the course of action which will pay off later.
In a love relationship, it means being able to enjoy the instant gratification that comes with the romance of the moment while knowing the best is yet to be and being patient while you watch your love grow.
It is knowing that by working together, the state of unconditional love will presence itself in the relationship and will mature with time. It is knowing that you grow into a love relationship. It doesn't happen all at once. Mature love partners seek new ways to help each other grow.
One of the characteristics of infancy is the "I want it now" approach. Grown-up people can wait. And often they don't. Often they allow themselves to slip back into infancy so they can justify rushing into things.
Maturity is the ability to stick with a project or a situation until it is finished. It means doing whatever it takes to make the relationship be one you are proud to be in.
The adult who is constantly changing jobs, relationships, and friends, is in a word. . . immature. They cannot stick it out because they have not grown up. Everything seems to turn sour after a while.
A Far Away Love
I LOVE YOU HON!
When I lay in bed at night, I hold my pillow very tight.
For every second that goes by, wishing you could see my eyes.
I catch myself starring into space, whishing I could see your face.
For the thought of you makes me shiver,
and to be that close to you would make my body quiver.
For a feeling this deep, should be the one we could keep.
Wanting that touch from you is so strong, how can these feelings be wrong.
So I lay there dreaming of you,
whishing you only knew how very much I want to be touching you.
I walk on the beach and look up at the stars, knowing you are so very far.
So a far away love should never be measured.
Cause with you in my life I have a treasure.
When I lay in bed at night, I hold my pillow very tight.
For every second that goes by, wishing you could see my eyes.
I catch myself starring into space, whishing I could see your face.
For the thought of you makes me shiver,
and to be that close to you would make my body quiver.
For a feeling this deep, should be the one we could keep.
Wanting that touch from you is so strong, how can these feelings be wrong.
So I lay there dreaming of you,
whishing you only knew how very much I want to be touching you.
I walk on the beach and look up at the stars, knowing you are so very far.
So a far away love should never be measured.
Cause with you in my life I have a treasure.
Monday, August 11, 2008
I miss you very much
The clouds slowly move
Unblocking my vision
Of the full, blue moon
Allowing me to see the stars
That I continue to wish upon
I hope tonight you are safe
I hope that you’re able to find the sleep
That you so desperately deserve
I often wonder, if at times
You forget someone over here
Misses you and keeps you in their prayers
I wish there was some way
To be held in your arms…
That I could look into your eyes
And let you worries disappear
There isn’t much I can do
Being way over here
I lose sleep over thoughts of you
The blankets that once surrounded me
In their warmth
Are now in a mess on the floor
I wish you were here to take their place
I look up towards the sky
And let the wind take my words
Through the miles
…I miss you so very so
Tuesday, August 05, 2008
Monday, August 04, 2008
Sunday, August 03, 2008
A Journey Of Love
FOR YOU HONEY BEAR,
Two souls,
Cast from the same mold.
Brought together by fate's own hand,
to travel another journey to a distant land.
Hand in hand, we will be
For I know, this was meant for you and me.
Cast from the same mold.
Brought together by fate's own hand,
to travel another journey to a distant land.
Hand in hand, we will be
For I know, this was meant for you and me.
What this journey will bring
Is one of my greatest fears.
But, with you by my side,
I know we'll get through the years.
Is one of my greatest fears.
But, with you by my side,
I know we'll get through the years.
My heart is overflowing,
with love so pure and true.
Sometimes, it's hard to endure
The lonely days and dark cold nights
Waiting, for my everlasting knight.
Someday soon, I know we will be,
together forever...until the end of eternity.
I LOVE YOU soo much!missin yeah !
with love so pure and true.
Sometimes, it's hard to endure
The lonely days and dark cold nights
Waiting, for my everlasting knight.
Someday soon, I know we will be,
together forever...until the end of eternity.
I LOVE YOU soo much!missin yeah !
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