Saturday, May 31, 2008

feel boreddddd,,,,,,,,,,,,,

geeeeeeee,,,, how i wish you're here beside me to hold me,,,,i misss you soo much! waaaaaaaaa! ---- Till i met YOU i never know what LOVE is!thanks for bringing so much joy in my life----- i love you,,,,wish you could feel every beat of my heart,,,(sad,bored)...wake up HONEY! talk to me......

Tuesday, May 27, 2008

im so inlove,,,,


Real love is.. The l0ok in somone's eyes that is meant for you al0ne,a gentle kiss that says EVERYTHING will be Fine,a hand held in just the right way at just the right time..A secret t0ld by one heart guarded by an0ther,a belief that someone Kn0ws you as n0 one else can,the little day to day acts of th0ughtfulness that go unmenti0ned but n0t unn0ticed,a feeling that no mater where you are,the deepest part of you remains with the one you love,a dream that c0mes true with time, trust & faith.. ----- I LOVE YOU SOO MUCH HONEY......

you can relate,,,,

after a while, you learn the subtle difference
between holding a hand and chaining a soul,
and you learn that love doesn't mean security
and you begin to learn that kisses aren't contract,
and presents aren't promises
and you begin to accept your defeats
with your head up and your eyes open
with the grace of an adult, not the grief of a child,
you learn to build all your roads on today
because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans,
after a while you learn that even sunshine burns,
if you get too much...
so, plant your own garden and decorate your own soul,
instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers,
and you learn that you really can endure...
that you really are strong...
and you really do have worth...!!!

Monday, May 26, 2008

just a thing,,,

LOVE is when u sit beside someone ..
Doing nothing ..
Yet ..
You
Feel
Perfectly
Happy ..

Luv is so kind dat it teaches u 2 sacrifice.luv is so great dat it sh0ws u h0w 2 care.luv is so great c0z it pr0vides happines... H0wever l0ve can be selfish 4 it teaches u 2 0wn
someb0dy.it is cruel c0z it all0ws l0vers 2 f0l apart.it is rude c0z it pr0vides barrier am0ng frndz.Luv Leaves u pain,burden & tears.Luv Lets u do even d w0rst things 4 others.Luv teaches u 2 hate & eventualy, luv teaches u 2 be str0ng in order 2 survive & luv agen..

Wn u r out der lukin 4dat prfect prson,
Kip dis thngs n mind:
Ppol change no mater how hard dey try not 2.
As u grow oldr u mature & w/ each new level
Of maturity cams dfrent ideas, dfrent needs & wants.
D person hu was perfect 4u at 20's cud b d prson u h8 at 30's.
U hav 2 find sm1 hu wil: grow w/u, change w/u, laugh w/u & cry w/u.
Rmembr dat der s no such perfect person in dis wrld
Bt der wil always b sm1 hu wil cmplete u..

Do you know y God created gaps between our fingers?
So that someday, the 1 who was made for you,
Will come & fill those gaps by holding your hands..
F0rever.





Sunday, May 25, 2008

A Dozen Ways to Get to Know Your Real Partner

How could you have an intimate relationship with someone only to wake up one day to find out that the person you fell in love with is not the person they turned out to be?

I believe there are at least a dozen ways to know who someone really is -- indicators -- and if we do an inventory early on, we might stand a better chance of getting to know the real person before we fully commit. The following "observance" suggestions are important ones to make in the early stages of any relationship because each offers insight into habits, patterns, and behaviors. As you ponder these observations, know that there is no right or wrong; it's a matter of acceptance. Sometimes we have to accept quirks and differences as part of the give-and-take process. As you do your assessment, however, the goal is to decide whether or not you can live with or without your real partner.

Here are the dozen indicators:

1. Protocol: First or Second? Whether it's walking through a door, ordering dinner, or taking a bite out of the freshly baked cookies you have made together, if your partner always have to go first this could indicate self- centeredness. Are you willing to always be the giver?

2. Politics: Liberal or Conservative? How your partner views what is right or wrong in a political sense tells you a lot about his deep inner beliefs about society, and ultimately, the way he will approach your relationship issues. Will his views cause a rift in your relationship?

3. Television: Sitcoms or News? If his tendency is to watch "escape" TV programs versus "newsy/event" oriented ones, you can learn a lot about one's intellect. Do you want a mate who can keep up with your every day interest in what is going on in the world or a person you can run away with to avoid the world we live in?

4. Money: Flash or Stash? If your partner throws money around while dating, he might well be reckless with your joint finances when you move in together. Do you want to hook up with a tightwad or splurger?

5. Stress: Freak or Peak? Under Pressure, does he go to pieces or rise to the top of his game? If the answer is the former, every minor incident in your relationship might become a crisis. Do you like a lot of drama?

6. Conversation: About You or Him? As you first get to know each other does he always talk about himself first or you? If he is usually the topic priority do not expect that to change. Can you subordinate yourself to the world revolving around him?

7. Pets: Warm or Aloof? Believe it or not, the way in which he treats animals will not be dissimilar to how he treats your children. How do you want him to treat your loved ones?

8. Communication: Listens or Ignores? If you have something you want to talk about and he tunes you out as a general rule, can you cope?

9. Strangers: Kind or Rude? How he treats those they do not know (waiters, grocery clerks) often reflects on how he will treat people in general, including you, shortly after the glow wears off.

10. Priorities: Family or Work? You can tell almost immediately where a person's preferences lie in terms of what comes first (a family member's illness or a business trip) by the choices he makes when faced with an "either/or" situation. Do you care if he leaves on the next plane to present the such-and-such report if you or the kids have pneumonia?

11. Appearance: Fat or Fit? How he regards his appearance screams loudly about his sense of self-esteem. Those who eat sensibly, workout reasonably, and who take pride in their appearance are the ones who have a great sense of self. Does he really have self-confidence or might it be a front?

12. Faith: Strong or Weak? If you want a peak at his soul, learn more about his spirituality, or lack of it. What a person believes deep down is often what shapes the way in which they conduct their day-to-day affairs. What is your mate's "words to live by?"

Thursday, May 22, 2008

Love,,,

Love isn’t the only reason why a relati0nshp stands for years or til forever.. We might think that love holds the relati0nshp.. But what if you love 2 much & forget that love also can weaken or worse, destroy a str0ng relati0nshp? I just realized that love is not enough.. The secret of having a str0ng, lasting relati0nshp is to trust the one you love & to accept his/her weaknesses or mistakes.. It’s not how many times you have forgiven.. But how you have shown understanding..

I Love you more than you knew...

HOney

I love you sooo much Hon,,,,I need you more than anyone could ever knew.....