take time to read so inspiring one...
A girl in love asked her boyfriend.
Girl : Tell me... who do you love most in this world?Boy : You, of course!
Girl : In your heart, what am I to you?Boy : The boy thought for a moment and looked intently in her eyes and said, "You are my rib. In the Bible, it was said that God saw that Adam was lonely, during his sleep; God took one of Adam's rib and created Eve. Every man has been searching for his missing rib, only when you find the woman of your life; you'll no longer feel the lingering ache in your heart."
After their wedding, the couple had a sweet and happy life for a while. However, the youthful couple began to drift apart due to the busy schedule of life and the never-ending worries of daily problems....their life became mundane....All the challenges posedby the harsh realities of life began to gnaw away their dreams and love for each other... The couple began to have more quarrels and each quarrel became more heated.
One day, after the quarrel, the girl ran out of the house....At the opposite side of the road, she shouted, "You don't love me!" The boy hated her childishness and out of impulse, retorted, "May be, it was a mistake for us to be together! You were never my missing rib!"
Suddenly, she turned quiet and stood there for a long while...He regretted what he said but words spoken are like thrown away water, you can never take it back. With tears, she went home to pack her things and was determined in breaking-up.
Before she left the house, "If I'm really not your missing rib, please let me go.....She continued, "It is less painful this way... let us go on our separate ways and search for our own partners..."
Five years went by....He never remarried but he had tried to find out about her life indirectly...... She had left the country and back.... She had married a foreigner and divorced.....
He felt anguished that she never waited for him. In the dark and lonely night, he lit his cigarette and felt the lingering ache in his heart. He couldn't bring himself to admit that he was missing her..
One day, they finally met....At the airport, a place where there were many reunions and good-byes....
He was going away on a business trip. She was standing there alone, with just the security door separating them. She smiled at him gently.
Boy: How are you?Girl : I'm fine. How about you... Have you found your missing rib?Boy: No.Girl : I'll be flying to New York in the next flight.Boy: I'll be back in 2 weeks time. Give me a call when you are back... You know my number... Nothing has changed.
With a smile, she turned around and waved good-bye.. Good-bye.....One week later, he heard of her death. She had perished in New York.In the event that shocked the world.
Midnight..... Once again, he lit his cigarette..... And like before, he felt the lingering ache in his heart.... He finally knew, she was the missing rib that he had carelessly broken....
Sometimes, people say things out of moments of fury..... Most often than not, the outcome could be disastrous and detrimental....
We vent our frustrations 99% at our loved ones....And even though we know that we ought to "think twice and act wisely", it's often easier said than done.
Things happen each day, many of which are beyond our control....Let us treasure every moment and everyone in our lives.... Tomorrow may never come; give and accept what you have today.
"The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."
Saturday, March 29, 2008
hmmmnnnn..
Once you have loved, you will always love. For what's in your mind may escape but what's in your heart will remain forever. Find time to realize that there is one person who means so much to you, for you might wake up one morning losing that person who you thought meant nothing to you.
Friday, March 28, 2008
Live life to the fullest...
Don't let go of hope,Hope gives you the strength to keep going. When you feel like giving up.
Don't ever quit believing in yourself,As long as you believe you can,You will have reason for trying.
Don't let anyone hold your happiness in their hands,Hold it in yours, so it will always be within your reach.
Don't measure success or failure by material wealth, But by how you feel, Our feelings determine the richness of our lives. Don't let bad moments overcome you, Be patient, and they will pass.
Don't hesitate to reach out for help; We all need it from time to time.
Don't run away from love but towards love, Because it is your deepest joy.
Don't wait for what you want to come to you.Go after it with all that you are,Knowing that life will meet you halfway.
Don't feel like you've lost, When plans and dreams fall short of your hopes.
Anytime you learn something new,About yourself or about life,You have progressed
Don't do anything that takes away,From your self-respect.Feeling good about yourself Is essential to feeling good about life.
Don't ever forget how to laugh,Or be too proud to cry,Or too stubborn to smile.
Don't ever forget a friend who truly loves you, As it could be that friend who is true to your needs.Don't ever forget who helped you grow as your need for more seeds may often re-appear.
With all the above, live life to it's fullest....
Don't ever quit believing in yourself,As long as you believe you can,You will have reason for trying.
Don't let anyone hold your happiness in their hands,Hold it in yours, so it will always be within your reach.
Don't measure success or failure by material wealth, But by how you feel, Our feelings determine the richness of our lives. Don't let bad moments overcome you, Be patient, and they will pass.
Don't hesitate to reach out for help; We all need it from time to time.
Don't run away from love but towards love, Because it is your deepest joy.
Don't wait for what you want to come to you.Go after it with all that you are,Knowing that life will meet you halfway.
Don't feel like you've lost, When plans and dreams fall short of your hopes.
Anytime you learn something new,About yourself or about life,You have progressed
Don't do anything that takes away,From your self-respect.Feeling good about yourself Is essential to feeling good about life.
Don't ever forget how to laugh,Or be too proud to cry,Or too stubborn to smile.
Don't ever forget a friend who truly loves you, As it could be that friend who is true to your needs.Don't ever forget who helped you grow as your need for more seeds may often re-appear.
With all the above, live life to it's fullest....
Thursday, March 27, 2008
Echoes of our hearts..
Sometimes we close our eyes and just listen to the echoes of our hearts.We all fall inlove and there are times when we love so much that we lose ourselves in our emotions. More often than not, we wonder why there are love that grows cold. We would start to search for answers and try to find where love has gone wrong.But in the end, we find ourselves where we started for we cannot question love when it has its own reasons. Love will always be as it always has been...silent, maysterious and deeply profound.Many of us believes that love never dies, only to be disillusioned in the end when we find our hands empty and our hearts long.We mistakenly have looked at love as a need to be fulfilled. But love is a gift given to us. We should not hold it in our hands for we may never find the strenght to let it go when it decides to leave only embraces its warmth and glow while it last good-bye. fall in love everything we wanted to be love will stay and grow in our hearts we should never let our lives be taken by it, or life should not end where heartaches begin to move on goodbye to tha feeling we wanted to stay forever. wave our hands with a heavy heart. For love will have to set its wings free and find the place where it belongs.We may have lost it when we close our eyes listen to the echoes of our hearts we will hear that feeling resounding silently forever.Then we'll know that love never left us!love will always stay...Love will always be there, thankful and happy. We have lost love but because for once in our lives that feeling called love lived in our hearts and made us happy.
I dont know......
A man who makes a promise with words and not with actions may never live up to fulfill them. It's true that love can wait forever but it is crazy to stubbornly hope for someone who doesn't even care to understand how you feel. Love makes us see the things thru rose colored glasses. Most of the time, we fail to recognize the danger sign that light up along our way. This feeling that you have nurtured for so long isn't healthy anymore. You must realize that you have to let go now before it consumes you and your sanity. There is always a time to think and stop. A time to be sensible and not to allow our hearts to rule over our heads.
"When I lost you, I was the one who love you most, but between us you lost more..for someday I can love someone the way I loved you..but you will never be loved again the way I did."
"When I lost you, I was the one who love you most, but between us you lost more..for someday I can love someone the way I loved you..but you will never be loved again the way I did."
Wednesday, March 26, 2008
Falling In Love
Feel free to read, actually just wanna share this article i've read and its true.....
It is a mystery why we fall in love. It is a mystery how it
happens. It is a mystery when it comes. It is a mystery why
some love grows and it is a mystery why some love fails.
You can analyze this mystery and look for reasons and
causes, but you will never do anymore that take the life out
of the experience. Just as life itself is more than the sum of
the bones and muscles and electrical impulses in the body,
love is more than the sum of the interests and attractions
and commonalities that two people share. And just as life
itself is a gift that comes and goes in its own time, so too, the
coming of love must be taken as an unfathomable gift that
cannot be questioned in its ways.
Sometimes, hopefully at least once in your life - the gift of
love will come to you in full flower. Take hold of it and
celebrate it in all inexpressible beauty. This is the dream we
all share. More often, it will come and take hold of you,
celebrate you for a brief moment, then move on.
When this happen to young people, they too often try to
grasp the love and hold it to them, refusing to see that it is a
gift that just as freely, moves away. When they fall out of
love, or the person they love feels the spirit of love leaving,
they try desperately to reclaim the love that is lost rather
than accepting the gift for what it was, then moving on.
They want answers where there are no answers. They
want to know what is wrong in them that makes the other
person no longer love them, or try to get their love to change,
thinking that if some small things were different, love would
bloom again. They blame their circumstances and say that if
they go far away and start a new life, their love will grow.
They try anything to give meaning to what has happened. But
there is no meaning beyond the love itself, and until they
accept its own mysterious ways, they live in a sea of misery.
You need to know this about love, and accept it. You need to
treat what it brings you with kindness. If you find yourself in
love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with
yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't
choose to rest in the other person's heart.
If you find yourself someone in love with you but you don't
love him back, feel honored that love came and called at your
door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return. Do not
take advantage; do not cause pain. How you deal with love is how you deal with yourself. All our hearts feel the same
pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different.
If you fall in love with another, and he falls in love with you,
and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it nor to
assess blame. Let it go. There is a reason and there is a
meaning. You will know in time.
Remember that you don't choose love. Love chooses you. All
you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it
comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to overflowing,
then reach out and give it away. Give it back to the person
who brought it alive in you. Give it to others who deem it
poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you Iin any way you can.
There is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long
without love, they understand love only as a need. They see
their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and
they begin to look at love as something that flows to them
rather than from them.
The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as
their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as a need.
They cease to be someone who generates love and instead
become someone who seeks love. They forget that the
secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be made to
grow only by giving it away.
Remember this and keep it to your heart. Love has its time, its
own season, its own reason for coming and going. You
cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into staying. You can
only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it
comes to you. But if it chooses to leave from your heart or
from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and
there is nothing you should do. Love always has been and
always will be a mystery. BE GLAD THAT IT CAME TO LIVE
FOR A MOMENT IN YOUR LIFE.
If you keep you heart open, it will come again...
It is a mystery why we fall in love. It is a mystery how it
happens. It is a mystery when it comes. It is a mystery why
some love grows and it is a mystery why some love fails.
You can analyze this mystery and look for reasons and
causes, but you will never do anymore that take the life out
of the experience. Just as life itself is more than the sum of
the bones and muscles and electrical impulses in the body,
love is more than the sum of the interests and attractions
and commonalities that two people share. And just as life
itself is a gift that comes and goes in its own time, so too, the
coming of love must be taken as an unfathomable gift that
cannot be questioned in its ways.
Sometimes, hopefully at least once in your life - the gift of
love will come to you in full flower. Take hold of it and
celebrate it in all inexpressible beauty. This is the dream we
all share. More often, it will come and take hold of you,
celebrate you for a brief moment, then move on.
When this happen to young people, they too often try to
grasp the love and hold it to them, refusing to see that it is a
gift that just as freely, moves away. When they fall out of
love, or the person they love feels the spirit of love leaving,
they try desperately to reclaim the love that is lost rather
than accepting the gift for what it was, then moving on.
They want answers where there are no answers. They
want to know what is wrong in them that makes the other
person no longer love them, or try to get their love to change,
thinking that if some small things were different, love would
bloom again. They blame their circumstances and say that if
they go far away and start a new life, their love will grow.
They try anything to give meaning to what has happened. But
there is no meaning beyond the love itself, and until they
accept its own mysterious ways, they live in a sea of misery.
You need to know this about love, and accept it. You need to
treat what it brings you with kindness. If you find yourself in
love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with
yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't
choose to rest in the other person's heart.
If you find yourself someone in love with you but you don't
love him back, feel honored that love came and called at your
door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return. Do not
take advantage; do not cause pain. How you deal with love is how you deal with yourself. All our hearts feel the same
pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different.
If you fall in love with another, and he falls in love with you,
and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it nor to
assess blame. Let it go. There is a reason and there is a
meaning. You will know in time.
Remember that you don't choose love. Love chooses you. All
you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it
comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to overflowing,
then reach out and give it away. Give it back to the person
who brought it alive in you. Give it to others who deem it
poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you Iin any way you can.
There is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long
without love, they understand love only as a need. They see
their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and
they begin to look at love as something that flows to them
rather than from them.
The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as
their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as a need.
They cease to be someone who generates love and instead
become someone who seeks love. They forget that the
secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be made to
grow only by giving it away.
Remember this and keep it to your heart. Love has its time, its
own season, its own reason for coming and going. You
cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into staying. You can
only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it
comes to you. But if it chooses to leave from your heart or
from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and
there is nothing you should do. Love always has been and
always will be a mystery. BE GLAD THAT IT CAME TO LIVE
FOR A MOMENT IN YOUR LIFE.
If you keep you heart open, it will come again...
Tuesday, March 25, 2008
Love is All that mAtters...
Love is a gift you cant buy,you can't find it, someone has to give it to you.Learn to be receptive of that gift.T0 love is to receive a glimpse of heaven.The quickest way to receive love is to give;the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly;and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.Love grows by giving. The Love we give away is the only love we keep. The only way to retin love is to give it away.Love is unselfish, Understanding and kind, For it sees with its heart and not with its mind.Never pretend to a love which you do not actually feel, for love is not ours to command.Those who are afraid of love and where it might take you, dont be.For letting someone into your life and letting them know you that well is the greatest accomplishment ever.Sometimes youhave to just take a chance in love and life. You can't live your life amongst a mound of "what ifs" you have to follow yourheart and hope for the best.Love is the special feeling that brightens all our days, and the secret of its meaning is found in simple ways.Love is missing someone whenever you're apart, but somehow feeling warm inside because you're close in heart.Love does not bind with chains and demands, Love gives the soul wings. Love teaches freedom and happiness and gives inner peace.Spread love everywhere you go: first of all in your own house. Give love to your children to your wife or husband, to a next door neighbor.Let no one ever come to you without leaving better and happier.Be the living expression of God's Kindness;kindness in your face, kindness in your eyes, kindness in your smile, kindness in your warm greeting.Where there is great love there are always miracles.Remember that you don't choose love, Love chooses you. All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life.Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away. Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you.Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in any way you can.Treasure the love you receive above all. It will survive long after your gold and good health have vanished.Life is a journey, and love is what makes that journey worthwhile.We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love.When youlike someone, youlike them in spite of their faults, Whne you love someone, you love them with their faults.To love and win is the best thing. To love and lose the next best.We are not the same persons this year as last;nor are those we love. It is a happy chance if we changing, continue to love a changed person.Love soesn't need to be doubted, tested or proven. it's meant to be shown shared, and nurtured. Find your strenght in love.love acquires its true meaning by experiencing it for the first time because only then can you define it.The way to love anything is to realize that it might be lost.Our love must not be a thing of words and fine talk. It must be a thing of action and sincerity.Real love is a pilgrimage. It happens when there is no strategy.but it is very rare because most people are strategists.Love is strong yet delicate. It can be borken to truly love is to understand this. To be in love is to respect this.Love is not a matter of what happens in life. It's a matter of what's happening in your heart.Love is when each person is more concerned for the other than for one's self.Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength while loving someone deeply gives you courage."If you have the courage to love, you have the courage to suffer".Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they'll love you back, dont expect love in return;just wait for it to grow in their heart, but if it doesn't be content it grew in yours.Love is a canvass furnished bu nature and embroidered by imagination.Love is the triump of imagination over intelligence.Love is the seed of all hope. It is the enticement to trust, to risk, to try, to go on.let no one who loves be unhappy. Even love unreturned has its rainbow.Love may last for just a moment but memory can make that moment last forever.Love and respect are the most important aspects of parenting, and of all relationships.
Immature love says:"I love you because I need you."Mature love says: "I need you because I love you."
Two things you should NEVER say to the one you love, "I love you, but.... and "If you loved me, you would..'should you really qualify love with conditions?..I love you, not because you are perfect..but because you are so perfect to me.In love, never put yourself in a situation where you're not sure of where you stand in a person's life..Never assume ,never expect so that if they drop you, you have enough strength to move on..The best proof of love is TRUST. Love bears all things, believes all things hopes all things, endures all things. Marry a person you love to talk to.As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.To the world you may be one person, but to one person you be the world.To love is to have someone special one who you can always depend to be there through the years sharing laughter and tears as a partner, a lover, a friend. We find rest in those we love, and we provide a resting place for those who love us..All, everything that i understand,I understand only because i love..
Immature love says:"I love you because I need you."Mature love says: "I need you because I love you."
Two things you should NEVER say to the one you love, "I love you, but.... and "If you loved me, you would..'should you really qualify love with conditions?..I love you, not because you are perfect..but because you are so perfect to me.In love, never put yourself in a situation where you're not sure of where you stand in a person's life..Never assume ,never expect so that if they drop you, you have enough strength to move on..The best proof of love is TRUST. Love bears all things, believes all things hopes all things, endures all things. Marry a person you love to talk to.As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.To the world you may be one person, but to one person you be the world.To love is to have someone special one who you can always depend to be there through the years sharing laughter and tears as a partner, a lover, a friend. We find rest in those we love, and we provide a resting place for those who love us..All, everything that i understand,I understand only because i love..
heart sometimes get tired!
For the gUyZ oUt there!
“You keep walking thinking she’ll be behind waiting for you to come back, someday you will regret, and look back… but you won't see her, so you will try to find her, you will follow the path of tears that she cried for you, you will follow the tears expecting to find her, but at some point you won't see more tears, and that's because she will find somebody else… and that’s when you will know that she is gone forever…”
“You keep walking thinking she’ll be behind waiting for you to come back, someday you will regret, and look back… but you won't see her, so you will try to find her, you will follow the path of tears that she cried for you, you will follow the tears expecting to find her, but at some point you won't see more tears, and that's because she will find somebody else… and that’s when you will know that she is gone forever…”
missin' yOu Baby..
Its kinda bit so tired this nyt. Hmmnn,,, feelin’ so lonely and nervous don’t know what was going on! I can’t understand if whats really going On..ang gulo ko nOh quite confused na di mO malamAn.If u could only seen me right now di mo masasabi qng nu talga ang nararamdaman kO…ANO vAh talGa? ThE OnlY thing really bothers me nOw, I jUSt missed my sOn a lot!—Its Been 2 years nOW haven’t seen him (mY sOn) its really hard to my pArt na ikAw ang iNa ikaw din ang hindi kapiling ng AnAk mO.Things rEallY so complicated at this time.. I was cRying everytime I remember him calling my nAme, kiss Me When he seen me sAd and hug mE..awwwwwwwwww! ---
Baby,
I Love You Baby, wish someday you’ll understand what was really Happened bEtwEEn me and Your father.I dO hOpE yoU’ll Understand..---- I love you and missin you soo much!I never regret to hAve you in my Life, I am so thankful once in my Life, I have you even in a lil while.
---Mom--
Baby,
I Love You Baby, wish someday you’ll understand what was really Happened bEtwEEn me and Your father.I dO hOpE yoU’ll Understand..---- I love you and missin you soo much!I never regret to hAve you in my Life, I am so thankful once in my Life, I have you even in a lil while.
---Mom--
missin' yOu Baby..
Its kinda bit so tired this nyt. Hmmnn,,, feelin’ so lonely and nervous don’t know what was going on! I can’t understand if whats really going On..ang gulo ko nOh quite confused na di mO malamAn.If u could only seen me right now di mo masasabi qng nu talga ang nararamdaman kO…ANO vAh talGa? ThE OnlY thing really bothers me nOw, I jUSt missed my sOn a lot!—Its Been 2 years nOW haven’t seen him (mY sOn) its really hard to my pArt na ikAw ang iNa ikaw din ang hindi kapiling ng AnAk mO.Things rEallY so complicated at this time.. I was cRying everytime I remember him calling my nAme, kiss Me When he seen me sAd and hug mE..awwwwwwwwww! ---
Baby,
I Love You Baby, wish someday you’ll understand what was really Happened bEtwEEn me and Your father.I dO hOpE yoU’ll Understand..---- I love you and missin you soo much!I never regret to hAve you in my Life, I am so thankful once in my Life, I have you even in a lil while.
---Mom--
Baby,
I Love You Baby, wish someday you’ll understand what was really Happened bEtwEEn me and Your father.I dO hOpE yoU’ll Understand..---- I love you and missin you soo much!I never regret to hAve you in my Life, I am so thankful once in my Life, I have you even in a lil while.
---Mom--
Monday, March 24, 2008
Art of Letting gO!.
March 24, 2008
12:10 AM
One of the reasons why people get so sentimental.Its beacuse, memories are the only things that don't change. When everything does there are things in life that you can't hold on forever, no matter how much you fight for it.Sometimes destiny isn't always good, it becomes playful.When you met someone youlearned to love, you thought that it was the destiny who made your paths cross.but what if making your paths cross is just a part of the game that the playful destiny create? making you realize in the end that the person you thought that was destined for you wasn't really meant to stay.but only destined to make you feel love and leave you when you've already fallen.It's not was to state a reason when you decide to leave your love.Some might think it's just an excuse..some might not actually believe, some will blame you..some might even be mad at you. what they don't see is the fact that it hurts you even more, to hurt someone who doesn't deserve to be hurt..especially when you can't actually state the reason why you have to leave..You can never own something that was never yours..so let's stop gripping on things we expect to last forever..Nothing lasts forever. Forever is a lie. Everything is transitory. SO while you have something in your hand, put in mind that it's just borrowed..So that someday when it's gone, it won't take you eternity just let it go..When your feelings get strong for someone, its always wise to stop for a while and give your heart...-- a time to breathe a time to use your mind to weight the situation based on reason not on emotion..because the saddest thing that can happen is when one fall in love while the other wants nothing more than friendship..Love can sometimes be magic.. but magic can somtimes be an illusion...There are times when I wish that I was limited to certain emotions..so that I'll never have to experience pain, never feel betrayed or dissapointed, and never get my fragile heart broken..But the same thing means that I'll never know how it feels to love and be loved in return..the thought of it kind of scares me to have a heart that's whole but numb..or a heart that's broken but real...Someday, we'll all be looking back to those days we learned to love, get hurt, cry, and fight.Maybe when that time comes, we'll be laughing at our old dumb selves..realizing how stupid we were to stand up for things we knew weren't really meant for us.But i guess learning takes time, and mistakes make one's journey fun..Life is what we make it.Love makes the world go round,So let's live, love and take whatever pain it brings though it's hard to wait around for something that I know will never happen, it's harder to stop when I know it's everything I've always wanted but you know what? I'm glad ..I'm glad it happened..We're good FRIENDS and I'm thankful for that.Take care always my dear friend im just here.
12:10 AM
One of the reasons why people get so sentimental.Its beacuse, memories are the only things that don't change. When everything does there are things in life that you can't hold on forever, no matter how much you fight for it.Sometimes destiny isn't always good, it becomes playful.When you met someone youlearned to love, you thought that it was the destiny who made your paths cross.but what if making your paths cross is just a part of the game that the playful destiny create? making you realize in the end that the person you thought that was destined for you wasn't really meant to stay.but only destined to make you feel love and leave you when you've already fallen.It's not was to state a reason when you decide to leave your love.Some might think it's just an excuse..some might not actually believe, some will blame you..some might even be mad at you. what they don't see is the fact that it hurts you even more, to hurt someone who doesn't deserve to be hurt..especially when you can't actually state the reason why you have to leave..You can never own something that was never yours..so let's stop gripping on things we expect to last forever..Nothing lasts forever. Forever is a lie. Everything is transitory. SO while you have something in your hand, put in mind that it's just borrowed..So that someday when it's gone, it won't take you eternity just let it go..When your feelings get strong for someone, its always wise to stop for a while and give your heart...-- a time to breathe a time to use your mind to weight the situation based on reason not on emotion..because the saddest thing that can happen is when one fall in love while the other wants nothing more than friendship..Love can sometimes be magic.. but magic can somtimes be an illusion...There are times when I wish that I was limited to certain emotions..so that I'll never have to experience pain, never feel betrayed or dissapointed, and never get my fragile heart broken..But the same thing means that I'll never know how it feels to love and be loved in return..the thought of it kind of scares me to have a heart that's whole but numb..or a heart that's broken but real...Someday, we'll all be looking back to those days we learned to love, get hurt, cry, and fight.Maybe when that time comes, we'll be laughing at our old dumb selves..realizing how stupid we were to stand up for things we knew weren't really meant for us.But i guess learning takes time, and mistakes make one's journey fun..Life is what we make it.Love makes the world go round,So let's live, love and take whatever pain it brings though it's hard to wait around for something that I know will never happen, it's harder to stop when I know it's everything I've always wanted but you know what? I'm glad ..I'm glad it happened..We're good FRIENDS and I'm thankful for that.Take care always my dear friend im just here.
Challenges of Love...
March 24, 2008
12:05 am
It becomes easier to forgive if we prepare for it. That is, expect to encounter a bumpy road. Disagreements and disappointments are bound to occur. You see, early in our courtship we are blinded by the flames of passion and fail to see any of the imperfections of our partner. But, once we settle down and grow comfortable, we make the shocking discovery that our partner has faults. The only reason it is shocking is that we had false expectations and assumptions.
At times, even if we are big enough to forgive a terrible betrayal, our only choice will be to end the relationship. An obvious example would be of a husband sexually abusing his children. For the good of the children, society, wife, and even husband, he must be reported to the police. Yet, some women who are victims of physical or verbal abuse refuse to end the relationship because, they say, they "love" their husband. But, that is not love. Love is about respect and admiration for one's partner. How can one respect and admire anyone who abuses another? Women remain in abusive relationships, not because of love, but because of desperation. They bvelieve they are unworthy of something better, are trapped, or cannot make it on their own. They need to seek help from the community.
12:05 am
It becomes easier to forgive if we prepare for it. That is, expect to encounter a bumpy road. Disagreements and disappointments are bound to occur. You see, early in our courtship we are blinded by the flames of passion and fail to see any of the imperfections of our partner. But, once we settle down and grow comfortable, we make the shocking discovery that our partner has faults. The only reason it is shocking is that we had false expectations and assumptions.
At times, even if we are big enough to forgive a terrible betrayal, our only choice will be to end the relationship. An obvious example would be of a husband sexually abusing his children. For the good of the children, society, wife, and even husband, he must be reported to the police. Yet, some women who are victims of physical or verbal abuse refuse to end the relationship because, they say, they "love" their husband. But, that is not love. Love is about respect and admiration for one's partner. How can one respect and admire anyone who abuses another? Women remain in abusive relationships, not because of love, but because of desperation. They bvelieve they are unworthy of something better, are trapped, or cannot make it on their own. They need to seek help from the community.
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